Four Points of advice to young Gay Men

Working on the website, http://www.BigGayApple.com I come into contact with young 20-something gay boys that I ordinarily would not meet.

I usually have four points of advice for them, on how to be gay and in their 20's.

1. Have fun. Your ass is not going to stay that firm and perky forever. Enjoy it.

2. Always play safe. In addition to having fun, ALWAYS use a condom. Every time. Don't let anyone come inside of you...even if he tells you he loves you. If he loves you, he'll wear a condom.

3. Don't develop an addiction. How many gay men in their 30's and 40's are either in an addiction group - or should be in one. Smoke some weed every now and then, but stay off the hard stuff, especially crystal. It does no good.

4. Buy real estate. Save, beg, borrow, and steal to get the downpayment. But do it. (Take a loan against your 401K if you have to). Be financially responsible. You'll be happy in your 30's and 40's that you did.

I was at an adult convention last week in Phoenix. I told a friend of mine these four points the day before. When they asked him, if there was one thing that he'd do different in the nine years that he's been making porn, he said, "Nine years ago, I should have bought more real estate in New York."

I make porn just so that I can buy more real estate.